‘All happiness or unhappiness solely depends on the quality (or value) of the object to which we are attached by love.’ (Baruch Spinoza, 17th century philosopher – parentheses mine). This love could be anything as long as the quality is right. In marriage and all relationships, people evolve.. So what can we do to keep the value high?
‘..let your light shine before Mankind, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.’ (Matt 5:16). Not only for Mankind, but for each other.