There is a pattern in marriage counseling that happens frequently, Marriage disrespect.
How she criticizes
A wife disrespects her husband in a variety of ways but the first and most important one is the way she criticizes. Do you criticize with a condescending tone of voice, especially in front of others?
Do you dent his armor by not allowing him to be your protector? This happens when you mother him or emasculate him in some other manner. Men are wired to be protectors.
‘Dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry, for a man’s and woman’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.’ James 1:19-20
You can reverse course immediately and you will see gradual improvement in how he responds back to you.
Next: How a husband disrespects his wife.