Marriage Belittlement

Marriage Belittlement

Making a decision to belittle your spouse is likely one of the worst decisions in a marriage. If your intent is to change behavior for the better then there are much better ways to do so. Historic Disrespect If there is historically deep disrespect for your spouse,...
Marriage Out of Fear

Marriage Out of Fear

There are many reasons you stay in a marriage. The best reason is that both of you love each other and can handle conflict in a Christlike way. But another reason is the fear of leaving it. There are good reasons a Christian will leave a marriage. What is God’s...
God Slow to Answer

God Slow to Answer

There is nothing in the Bible that says God lives by our timetable. His answers to your prayers are all the way from immediately… to sometime around the end of our life. Why does God seem slow to answer prayer? It seems like he is taking his merry time when we...

FAST ANSWER TO PRAYER

The Holy Spirit can answer prayers in a miraculous way with lots of stage crafting.  A couple of weeks ago during his session, I asked him a client, who I will call Steve, how he found me and said that it was a long story. To make it short this is how it all went...

MARRIAGE STORMS

I was on a large boat sailing on the Sea of Galilee last October when the captain turned the bow into the afternoon wind.  It seemed like a gale as the stars and stripes crisply shuttered high on the mast.  I thought about Mark 4:35-41 when Jesus calmed the storm....

STOP THE ADDICTION

After a day at work and having your game face on for 8 hours you could be going through withdrawal  from the day.  Not just the normal tiredness but a need for some one thing to grab your attention.   The familiar road Most people follow the familiar road:  The cell...