Making a decision to belittle your spouse is likely one of the worst decisions in a marriage. If your intent is to change behavior for the better then there are much better ways to do so. Historic Disrespect If there is historically deep disrespect for your spouse,...
There are many reasons you stay in a marriage. The best reason is that both of you love each other and can handle conflict in a Christlike way. But another reason is the fear of leaving it. There are good reasons a Christian will leave a marriage. What is God’s...
There is nothing in the Bible that says God lives by our timetable. His answers to your prayers are all the way from immediately… to sometime around the end of our life. Why does God seem slow to answer prayer? It seems like he is taking his merry time when we...
The Holy Spirit can answer prayers in a miraculous way with lots of stage crafting. A couple of weeks ago during his session, I asked him a client, who I will call Steve, how he found me and said that it was a long story. To make it short this is how it all went...
I was on a large boat sailing on the Sea of Galilee last October when the captain turned the bow into the afternoon wind. It seemed like a gale as the stars and stripes crisply shuttered high on the mast. I thought about Mark 4:35-41 when Jesus calmed the storm....
After a day at work and having your game face on for 8 hours you could be going through withdrawal from the day. Not just the normal tiredness but a need for some one thing to grab your attention. The familiar road Most people follow the familiar road: The cell...
Last week’s post was about how a wife disrespects her husband. Today, I am writing about how a husband disrespects his wife. How he criticizes Not paying attention to her. The husband chooses to live his life as a single man except for sex. He routinely...
There is a pattern in marriage counseling that happens frequently, Marriage disrespect. How she criticizes A wife disrespects her husband in a variety of ways but the first and most important one is the way she criticizes. Do you criticize with a...
Drama definition: An exciting, emotional, or unexpected series of events or set of circumstances. It can also be an addiction. Why an addiction? Some people need to have drama in their lives and in its’ absence seek it. They do this because they don’t like their...
I know that 2019 has been a turbulent year. It has been filled at various times with miracles and heartaches. Whatever you have experienced from ‘this world’ it is to be expected. It won’t be the exact same problems but there will be trials and tribulations...
